OLD AGE HOME

Are you still thinking yourself a Human not An Animal?

We all know the common difference between Human and Animal but how many of keep that difference in the life. Animals never cares about parents, they cares mother until they depends upon her. As soon they able to manage food them self or they don’t need her milk anymore, they forget who the mother was. However this spam of time is different for different beings. For human we need more than 20 years to be independent, exceptions are there though. So Usual human life is 60 Years, where 20 years you need care and protection, support and Love from parents.

Chapter-1:
Influence of Western Culture:
India is rich cultured country in world. Our culture never teaches this, but unfortunately graph of old age home is increasing exponentially. In West, Family is not defined as it should be. They follow the independent, private life culture. When you have time visit the Old age home once, and imagine your future, when you have to be there. It’s a social crime, fight against that. I have so many incidences in life when father have to beg for food, the man who has given his life for them. The reason may be anything, may be difference between thoughts, may be the privacy and may be life style whatever it may be, but result is same. Just remember whatever you are doing today, you will get back soon by your lovable kids.

Chapter-2:
Story of Village (Mother of Culture):
I know a man, who was rich enough in his era; he paid 1000 bugs in year 1970 to change the Name of his Son, to famous Actor of time. As soon as the his got married, started spending the money like anything, end of few years, whatever his father have saved was gone. His end was more horrible, He used to work in others field as his son captured all. Son still says what my father has done for me. Who is going tell him, Dear wait soon your son will do same with you. However coins have two faces, I appreciate one my close friend who studied with me till class X. He quit thought he was bright student, and the reason was this father, His father was biggest former of my area, He sell out his all land for his luxury, when the struggling period started, the boy took his responsibilities, He works in Diamond shop but still he don’t have any regret what his father did. His father is feeling guilty today. Though his father was wrong but throwing out is solution?

Chapter-3:
Life in Metro:
Educated person have more cheap thoughts, once I mate to one Police inspector, actually he was my friend during my graduation. I went to his home to greet him; he was newly married Man. Usual formalities I asked where your parents are, as he is only son. His wife told me actually they are in village with relatives. After 2 years when they got kids, they call up the parents to take care of them. Don’t you think you are treating them as cheapest servant? When you are free bird to fly, parents are burden but once you got some responsibilities you need them to take care, is this the way how you should do? There are thousand of reasons when your parents can’t be with you, but should be on their choice not yours.

Chapter-4:
When Man acts more horrible than Animal:
It’s not so old story, happens in Delhi. Son whose father died in early age, she has option to remarries but, she sacrifices her life for Kids. His son is Manager in some reputed company; He married to his choice, after marries, on advice of his wife, he sells his Old house what his parents had, denied to keep mother with his. She was in Old age home, some NGO’s helps her to fight back in court and get her property back. Imagine what pain she had bear to grow this Kid, How come a Man can forget what she did for him. I will face one question very often, if tries to advice someone,” What great they did for me, as a parents, its duty for them”. You bloody man, who will teach you, your duty.

Chapter-5:
Few Process only Human follow not even Animal:
Most of you have seen this, very common in India. When brothers split, they divide parents as well. Do you able to think, how they will live. Minimum 30-40 years they were two bodies but one soul, now just you can’t bear both of them together so let’s divide. No difference between human emotion and dead land, garden, house and money. Even you can see more smart approach some of them get rid of them by giving some lands and properties. What a shame to human civilization. Is this for what family needs you? Is that for what a mother carries you nine months and bear all her pain with pleasure? Is that for what your father work hard to give you better education and support? No never, be a human respect the Emotion and be respected.



How can we reduce this Sin?
Yes, every problem has solution. We don’t need any law on that, what we need to understand our responsibilities. Understand the value and need of Parents. If you stay together have your ten minutes for them every day. Being parents even you have to build a strong bonding with your Child's. New tradition sending kids to boarding school or keeping with others for study, in that case they might be able to think, you pay for them but you have no time for them, they will do same when you need them. We can change this society can change this, kick out your most valuable friend if he do so; avoid the family from society who do so. Let them feel what mistake they did, how can they correct that.

JUST REMEMBER, YOU ACTION WILL REFLECT IN YOUR CHILD'S.
Thanks: Dewendra K Pandey http://freshersforum.info/)